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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/21/2018 4:03 pm

OK the first thing is . . . we're talking about people here and more specifically we're talking about people on the inter/web/nets. And there are A LOT of people on the inter/web/nets who are . . . oh how shall I phrase it . . . well I can't phrase it nicely because it will lose its impact soo. A LOT of people on the inter/web/nets are dumber than a bag o shit.

Or to put it another way "You've got to remember that these are just simple fuckers. These are people who are bland. The common clay of the sex sites. You know . . . morons”. So, dear sweet Lalalalalala this means your expectations of them are pretty high.

Also, you've used a word many can't completely see "dictionary". Ya see, many of those you describe probably can't see beyond they lil dic.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/21/2018 4:50 pm

    Quoting  :

Uhmmm . . . you're welcome

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


qvillebiman 66M  
373 posts
5/21/2018 4:52 pm

As a bi man I have no problem saying what I am looking for. I have both men and women stumbling over words when I am straight up with them so I have to say WTF right beside you


40Deuce 46M
5725 posts
5/21/2018 4:57 pm

Passions was a soap opera and it was GREAT . NBC and/or Audience needs to bring it back NOW . Fanfic isn't doing it for me .

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superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
5/21/2018 5:16 pm

I think that for most NSA seekers, you need to substitute Ring for String. In other words, let's have sex, perhaps go out once in a while but don't expect a ring or cohabiting or exclusivity or explanations.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
5/21/2018 5:25 pm

I believe they want passion for sex not for themselves as humans .They want intense , wild hard hot wet sex. not wimpy , boring meh sex. that to them is passion it's about being involved physically not emotionally and maybe not mentally ..... many people want what they cannot have it is the bane of reasonable common sense life . It was said by buddha , all suffering is caused by want and desire . it brings frustration and pain . it can never be satisfied because it only leads to more desire if not controlled .The assets to acquire the thing desired are limited yet desire remains always unlimited ,the equation never balances suffering never ceases


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
5/21/2018 5:42 pm

Yeah, I too think it is stupid that people on a sex site cannot wrap their poor minds around saying up front they want to have sex with someone. I have noticed this behaviour in women and couples way too often. Not noticed it in men as I am not interested in them.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


marriedcretin 53M
1324 posts
5/21/2018 7:38 pm

ooh Lala, you know I want to do 'it' with you. Caress your lady lumps, kiss...you know...you...everywhere...you know. Every. Where.

I think that explains how I feel.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
5/21/2018 7:47 pm

LOL, I am one of those you refer to that uses Funn as the 'word" rather than the 3 letter word begining with se GRIN, it is because I have worn out that key on my laptop, and cant see putting it in the shop to repair just one key, even if it is pretty important!. Believe me, I am NOT shy and would use the correct word if I could, and it is amazing how many times I must find an alternate word to avoid using one with that letter in it!


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
5/21/2018 10:20 pm

For me the word "fun" never ever came to mind with the type of sex I've had. lol

Thoughts from the Garden...


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
5/22/2018 10:04 am

Lots of good comments already, Highly agree with papis baby girl about overblown expectations of NSA; and with clittywhisperer about what these dudes are looking for when they claim to want 'passion' - to them it means a woman who's not going to lie there like a dead fish

I also would like to say that in conversations with friends from this site, many of us have noticed that the guys who claim to be such sex maniacs usually aren't interested in getting together very often I suppose it's the discrepancy between what their libido is telling them - "me want sex twice a day, every day!" - and what their busy life actually allows. Oh and also the conflict between, "I want a lot of sex" and "but I can't let her get too attached to me or start to expect that we will also DATE".


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
5/22/2018 10:23 am

Morons of the world unite!!! lol Sorry, just felt like saying that.

I can understand their desire for passionate, nsa sex ... and I think it IS possible to achieve both. With my 2 fwb, I would have to say that Mr Oct is VERY passionate, and Steve is just... not! There is just something about the way Mr Oct goes about it all that is just leads me to feel he just can't get enough of me, ever, and to me, THAT is passion. At least for the act anyway. As we are both married, we don't cross that line into feelings, so I don't refer to that type of passion.

As for the way people are asking for sex directly or indirectly, I prefer in the beginning to not be asked if I want to fuck or have sex. Talk to me like a human with a brain, not just a hole to fill. Once I get more comfortable with them, yes, it is then ok to ask, but until then, just no. There has to be a mutual interest first, an ability to entertain my brain somewhat with engaging conversation, then a seduction. To me, there are steps to take before asking to have sex. That is just my feelings on it. I know I am on a sex site and the goal is to have sex, but I do not want to go from 0-60 in the first minute. If they can't take the time to do all the steps before that point, I am pretty sure they will skip the steps in bed that are for MY benefit, and just be there for themselves.

I think I went a little off topic or meaning of what you meant in this regard ... I agree that most post on their profiles that they want "euphemism" instead of just saying they want sex. But I think just saying they are here for sex, and sex only, or just here to fuck, is too crass, so I am ok with whatever way they want to word it.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
5/22/2018 10:37 am

Great definitions hun and everyone is here for a different reason, and your right oxymoron applies to much of the stuff going on around the site..Happy Tuesday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
5/22/2018 11:05 am

I still don't believe such a thing exists - NSA..........and what's the point of sex without passion and desire, ye'd be as weel tae flick yer bean or hae yin off the wrist, no?

Conversely, 'sexy' and 'my hairy scottish arse' is far from constituting an oxymoron.......

ps - are there no' enough morons around here with you having to point out even more, you brat!!

pps - more snogs, from today and from yesterday........


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
5/23/2018 10:16 am

>>As for the guys who vocalize their libidos so much...I think it's a matter of wanting what they're not getting enough of. It's like a vitamin a deficiency where your body craves it until you level out.

Very true - when they're not getting any sex at all, it's like, "I'm so sex crazed!" Then they hook up with someone a couple times and it's more like, "Eh, I'm pretty comfy here at home with my X-box, frozen pizza and porn on the laptop. Maybe we can get together next week" .


hardateforyou 49M
29 posts
5/27/2018 10:29 am

Yes some people don't take the time to get to know the person they think their "In Love With...So many times l have made a "Fool of ¿Myself . Believil was I in Love...

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1st_downonu 67M
443 posts
6/15/2018 4:23 am

I would love to have sex with you!


Tallhunghotfun 44M
23 posts
6/18/2018 10:18 am

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