Hi! 49 yr old male in good shape (5'8"; 155 lbs; work out, teach Martial Arts) who loves to talk and laugh; caress and kiss, be tender and passionate. I love to cook, play volleyball and ride s. I have a published book on Martial Arts, and am now working on two new books.

My Ideal Person Before I go any further, please let me help us both--

I live in the San Fernando Valley; my situation doesn't allow me the time to travel, so please live in or near the Valley also. There's nothing more frustrating than seeing a beautiful face and body, only to learn we're geographically undersirable.

I've come to notice that many women like to answer questions with questions, ignore questions in their responses because my questions are meant to lead to a goal--intimate, fun, passionate pleasuring of each other.

If we get past a couple of messages and I offer my phone number or to meet somewhere public, please say yes and move us forward or don't bother responding any further. I've never understood this "cyber masturbation", but I'm into pleasuring the real you, and I've worked hard at being an exceptional lover.

Let's do what we came here for--the more messages, the fewer times we'll have together...

I'm looking for a woman who understands my situation, wants to connect in a light, fun, discreet way; to miss each other after we part and yearn for our next tryst. I want a woman who loves her body so that I can take my time kissing, caressing, nibbling, tickling and licking every inch of her so that waves of tenderness and passion course through her body as my joy of pleasuring her in sensual and erotic ways. Who wants her body excited as much as she does her "sweet spots", and is elevated to the point that when I do reach them, she allows me to use myself in many different ways to bring her to pleasure and ecstasy in more ways than she can imagine. To let me take in the various scents and tastes of her body as I explore her physically, mentally and sensually...

...which means beauty without brains, a sense of humor or the ability to carry on a conversation just doesn't make the whole package--and sex, passion, tenderness and gentleness are only one dimensional if we're not the whole package for each other.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Food Play, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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