Very youthful, fun loving, affectionate, gentleman, 61 years young, 6’3” with extra padding. Educated yet appreciates the simple things in life, well traveled yet enjoys staying at home, serious and quiet by nature yet enough to cut up and have fun, would rather listen than to talk, comfortable in crowds yet craves the attention of one special lady. I'm a sensual giver and wired so that if my partner is not enjoying things then I can't. So my desire is to make my special lady extremely happy and have a devilish smile come over her when she thinks of me. I'm very coachable and am sure that I don't know everything there is on how to completely please a lady, but more than willing to learn to make her smile a reality.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a mature, preferrably over 40, full figured or Queen sized lady who is now having or has had needs neglected and who desires the occasional company of a courteous, patient, considerate, gentleman for mutually pleasurable and unforgetable times together. She would be living within 50 or so miles from me and be able to get together occasionally as our schedules allow. The lady would be affectionate, love to touch and be touched, not be ashamed of her body, love receiving oral, and open minded to explore new pleasures. Of major consideration is that I am more interested in her inner beauty than external looks. She would also be assured that patience includes taking the time to get to know her likes and dislikes, her desires and turn-offs, her joys and sorrows, her strengths and weaknesses, and her dreams. Her needs and desires would come first because only by pleasing and satisfying her would I able to be satisfied too.

If this sounds like something that even remotely sounds interesting to you, give me wink. We can e-mail for a while and get to know each other better. Only if you felt comfortable in meeting sometime would we do so. There would never be pressure whatsoever for you to do anything that would make you feel even the remotely uncomfortable. You would set the comfort range and it would respected at all times.

If things don’t work out for both, then we wish each other the best in their search for happiness and move on. If things work out then we both benefit and are lives are made that much richer. What questions can I answer for you?

UPDATE: Many I assume think this is a come-on and that that what I've said is BS. Well it's not. I am different from the run of the mill "bootie call" becasue what I am looking for is a genuine friend with mutual benifits. It it takes 100 tries and only one honest and sincere connections is made, then it's exactly what I'm looking for, just one. That one connection would allow us to be more free, open, and honest.

In my personal life my spouse has lost interest in sex over the past 10 years, and no matter what I have tried, including romantic weekends, counseling, trying different techniques, nothing has worked. My desires have not diminished (everything still works at my end too), and at this time I do not wish to change my marital status.

This is my story, honest and painful as it may sound. However I do feel that there is someone out there that has the same situation where we can get together and make the best of our lives with out enduring the hunger of intimacy.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Glenn Miller, Dave Mathews

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Interested in emotional attraction as well as physical

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Would rather meet and be with people who have their feet on the ground and are real.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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