Hi visitor, This is J, a fit, clean, single, straight guy in grad school with strong aesthetic values. Relatively new to US and the kink culture. I do math for a living. Age: 24 Location: MA Sexuality: Straight, Demisexual, sapiosexual, somewhere on the spectrum between monogamous to polyamorous. Keeps oscillating. Let's just say monogamous for the right person. Also, I am pursuing this new hobby of erotic body massage. I don't have a license and I don't sell services. I am amateur who does this voluntarily. Usually, I would like to give massage to a lady older than me. So far, so good. Please feel free to reach out to connect or if you have questions.

My Ideal Person Here to hotwives and cougars. Have some good time. A chemistry usually works better. Would like someone older than me, generous yet strict, often dominant, sometimes submissive.
Adventurous and sapiosexual are plus.

Apart from that, I am listing a few scenarios I would like to see myself. My fetishes are not limited to them and I am open to explore more:

1. Being obedient to a strong dominant woman older than me. Like to switch to the dom side once in a while, but leaning more towards the sub side. The psychological submission excites me more than just obeying orders.
My submission is limited to play only.
2. Being dominant to a submissive woman, preferably younger, but older should be fine as well. I can take you to the extreme of your boundaries. While I will be far into psychological domination and sadism, I will always respect your comfort levels and care about your well being.