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Paid to get laid..?  

partygald 41F
3082 posts
7/19/2018 11:24 pm

Last Read:
8/13/2018 5:04 am

Paid to get laid..?


Hi all. It's been a pretty rough week. It didn't start too well cos the last weekend didn't end too well. Seems like the rough patch just keeps on keeping on. Anyhow. A couple things on my mind so let's get round to this and I'll try and keep it short.

This morning kinda sums up my entire week, actually. I had a call at 6am this morning with the US office. It ran up til about 8am and I had decided to take the morning off and ride an hour to the beach. It's been weeks since I've felt sand between my toes so I figured with the rough week and all, I could use a few hours of me time. I threw on a pink bikini top and black bottom, shorts, a yellow t-shirt, towel, water bottle, coffee mug, and made the ride. Of course, such as things are, it fucking poured on my way out, literally right after I turned onto the main road -_-

I was drenched by the time I found space on the side of the road to stop so I didn't, and continued on to the beach. The beach was uneventful, which was nice. It wasn't all that quiet, but I found a spot and managed to soak some sun so, that was fun. What wasn't fun, on top of the cold and wet ride, was finding out that I had spilled half my coffee onto myself. I felt something warm on my thigh riding, but ignored it. When I got there, half my coffee was gone, my shorts are stained, and I got coffee-pussy (blech). LOL. The swimwear and shorts are all soaking now so...I'm hoping the stains wash off.

So aaaaaanyhow. I was texting an old friend of mine while at the beach. I used to share a place with her when we both started working. She used to be a very successful social way back then. I always found that interesting. I know her fairly well so I know it's not a walk in the park as far as jobs come. I remember I used to ask her for pointers Best piece of advice I've got from her (and I've had lots from her), gargling with coconut oil if I wanna deep throat a large dick. LOL I didn't realise it at the time but that advice came in really handy a few years after
Anyway, she's married with 5 now, so....we're planning a meet up. Probably when I get back to SG.

That conversation then prompted a secondary memory flashback. On my way back up I remember I actually took payment for sex once. I didn't know better at the time. I blogged about it in an old post, but it was one of my tutors actually. We were all out at a party and he showed up and admittedly, he was quite charming (at the time) and one thing led to another and we ended up in bed. He then gave me cash. I was stunned at the time. I didn't know what else to do, so I took it. I was ashamed for a long time, then angry for a much longer time. I'm past it now and have actually seen him a few times over the years. I honestly feel nothing now, for him or his actions. At one point, I actually felt ashamed for him. Ah well... I suppose we all live and learn.

I've been brought to clubs where there were male , but I honestly have never paid to get laid. Not a direct transaction-is kinda way. I've also been propositioned a few times. Never accepted. I just don't find that sexy at all. I dunno.

Can't be just me, right?
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partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/19/2018 11:25 pm

Funny how the brain works...one thing leading to another...
I also should add, I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I mean, if its on one's own free will. You know
Have a good weekend all!


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
7/19/2018 11:37 pm

Hope those coffee stains come out .. they can be nasty.
So, he just offered you money after having sex? I am torn between saying "What a a prick!!" and "yay you" lol. Hope it was a decent amount!


DanielRayMazeII_ 41M
6 posts
7/20/2018 12:32 am

Paid with time but never with money


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/20/2018 1:34 am

Have you ever accepted a drink , or food that was paid for by a man?-..... I'm sure you have......so really you've been paid for sex many times [whether or not you actually had sex with him] and you didn't give it a second thought. ,,But a man did pay you.

So I don't see why you would get upset when a man gives you some money , directly to you, for sex.

As for your friend who got married and now has 5 kids..... she basically vowed her way into a form of legal prostitution..aka; Marriage.

To get around all this payment nonsense... next time you see a guy you want to have sex with, just tell him to get naked and into bed. If he is stupid enough to leave money? Well he is stupid, but you're a bit more financially richer. Deposit the amount into your savings.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/20/2018 1:55 am

    Quoting dayzeeme:
    Hope those coffee stains come out .. they can be nasty.
    So, he just offered you money after having sex? I am torn between saying "What a a prick!!" and "yay you" lol. Hope it was a decent amount!
Lol
You know what? I actually can’t remember the amount. I remember the sex though...it was pretty aweful😝. And I’m actually being honest about it. Heh


partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/20/2018 1:56 am

Haha...haven’t we all. Paid with some parts of my soul too, unfortunately. 😣


partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/20/2018 1:58 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Have you ever accepted a drink , or food that was paid for by a man?-..... I'm sure you have......so really you've been paid for sex many times [whether or not you actually had sex with him] and you didn't give it a second thought. ,,But a man did pay you.

    So I don't see why you would get upset when a man gives you some money , directly to you, for sex.

    As for your friend who got married and now has 5 kids..... she basically vowed her way into a form of legal prostitution..aka; Marriage.

    To get around all this payment nonsense... next time you see a guy you want to have sex with, just tell him to get naked and into bed. If he is stupid enough to leave money? Well he is stupid, but you're a bit more financially richer. Deposit the amount into your savings.
Ha! Kinda not the same, but uh...I actually kinda also feel sorry for you if that really is your view for relationships. In any case, thanks for chipping in 😊


Tabbycat505 50F

7/20/2018 2:17 am

Not tell recently have I had men proposition me money for sex. An SC at first like you it made me angry. But after thinking about my circumstances and my pleasure in having sex I eventually caved. The first couple times I felt ugly and embarrassed but eventually that feeling went away and now I guess I have become OK with it. I feel that if man wants to give memoney I am going to take it. But I've also gotten money for just hanging out within few guys.

Tabbycat505


storkjwr18 48M

7/20/2018 3:27 am

Never paid directly, of course we all pay in one way or another right. Also never been given money...hhhmmm, I suppose no one ever thought Inwas worth paying lol.

I hate driving and spill my drink. I've done it so many times on my way to work, I keep an extra pair of pants there


nicebuttocks1950 74M
330 posts
7/20/2018 4:33 am

I have paid in indirect ways probably for all the sex I ever had. But - - to know that the woman was having sex with me primarily with the money in mind has not happened. I have spent lots of money on women and never got to have any sex with them. Drinks, meals, etc. I would rather just take care of myself in some way than to pay directly for "services rendered."


unknown170 45M
50 posts
7/20/2018 5:48 am

How else do you get the girl you like to deep throat and do anal? You pay
I know you love both and probably willing to do both for free day after day
And thats why we love you here


alohashirt50 73M

7/20/2018 5:51 am

I have a few brothels with in 100 miles or so.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/20/2018 11:32 am

    Quoting partygald:
    Ha! Kinda not the same, but uh...I actually kinda also feel sorry for you if that really is your view for relationships. In any case, thanks for chipping in 😊
Ha! Kinda not the same .... Oh very much the same. You'll figure it out one day.


ClitLickB4DickU 65M  
1392 posts
7/20/2018 10:37 pm

I'll be honest and say that I have paid in direct transaction for sex, sometimes needs must

A lot, and I mean A LOT, of young, well educated Asian girls who genuinely enjoy having sex, or they seem to , are not shy about asking for some "shopping money" afterwards. Heck, I even had sex with a mid 40s bank executive once who asked me for money afterwards, and she drove a BMW and was married to an expat

Like you, I don't have a problem with their choices, or mine, and it doesn't preclude forming a genuine relationship like your friend. And I agree, paying or not paying doesn't necessarily correlate with good or bad sex

Have a good weekend


gootman4u 64M
34 posts
7/21/2018 12:22 am

hey thanks for the stories.. nice.. have a great day...


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
7/21/2018 11:39 am

A rather tricky subject here my lady

Cheers and take care

P


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
8/13/2018 2:26 am

In my 20s, I was at a party at a convention hotel, and I tried to hit a hot 30-something woman. She was polite, but before long I figured out that she wasn't interested in me. However, her homely roommate showed up, and started buying me drinks. When the party wound down, I was not fit to drive back to my cheap hotel. They could both tell, and invited me to sleep in their room. The room was really cold, and they didn't have a couch, only a chair. The homely woman invited me to sleep on the other side of her bed. The hot woman and a guy she met at the party were on the other side of the room, kissing noisily. That was enough to get 20-something me horny enough to accept the invitation to the middle of the bed. We went a couple of rounds, slept, and went another round in the morning.

Getting ready to leave, I made no effort to hide my then 20-something body while getting ready for a shower and such. As I was leaving, the woman I had slept with expressed sympathy that I had to stay at the cheap hotel without even using the room, and gave me $40. Only later did it occur to me that it was really "thanks for the sex" money, not sympathy for being a 20-something who couldn't afford the fancy convention hotel.

Later, the woman I had slept with told me that the hot woman thought it was really charming and sexy the way I walked around naked the next morning, and that she had not ended up going any further than the noisy kissing with her guy. I kind of got the impression that she felt like she missed out, but didn't want to spoil her roommate's fun.


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