Hiya, I'm a leftist programmer with ADHD! Socially, I'm a pretty laid back and at times shy person, though depending on the situation and how I feel I may be passionate, expressive, and talkative. I have a deep appreciation for closeness and I like to remind people I'm close to how important they are to me. Most of my time is spent programming, playing video games, dancing, and just vibin' in general. Socially, I would say I'm fairly playful and like to tease others and be teased myself, all with an authentic smile across our faces. I have a dark, cynical, and absurd sense of humor that I feel is balanced by an authentic drive to be good and kind to others. My sense of humor is basically captured by IASIP, Dunkey, and Trailer Park Boys. As far as my music tastes go, I've really gotten into synth-pop (think Purity Ring, Neon Indian, Madeon, etc) but I like all kinds of stuff. If I had to describe what a perfect day for me would look like, it would be this: I wake up and get ready for the day. I go in the living room, and a small group of people I'm fond of are already up, doing whatever they like. Maybe someone is drawing, another is writing, and a few are on their laptops playing games together. Everyone is comfortable, and feels free to leave, or spark a conversation, or switch-up what they're doing, or to ask others if they want to do something, or to say no if they don't. There is some chill-ass music playing in the background as we connect with nostalgic feelings for a simpler time when we were carefree hanging out and feeling accepted. I sit on the couch and start programming. Every now and then, some of us go outside to smoke some weed while we watch TV, or talk about life and philosophize, or just relax.

My Ideal Person A homebody like me, who wants to take it easy and chill-out most of the time, is super affectionate, has a high sex drive, and with whom I have a mutual understanding. Also, sometimes I might not be super talkative and I can take a bit to warm up to people, so my ideal gal would cool with that. Also, while I'm ultimately looking for something long-term, I'm very open to sexual encounters. I won’t share anything super specific, but wet, primal, gross, and tongue are good keywords lol. I got a vasectomy a while back, for what it's worth!

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