Not sure yet what else to write here so yes, yes, we did just copy some of the writing ideas: We don't know yet if we like our partners to tell us what to do or follow our lead in the bedroom. She is sometimes bossy and rather dominant in perality, so she seems to like being dominated/tied/controlled in the bedroom. He likes to be dominate, but with the right woman will allow her to be the dominate one at times. He is very good with his hands and oral. He is a gentleman with great manners and treats a woman the way they should be treated. We love sex, but we’re just as interested in building enduring relationships/friendships. Wife is bi-sexual and husband is OK with her adding a girlfriend. Husband is looking for a friend or two, but is just as interested in a lasting friendship and not just the possibility of sex. We'd also enjoy other couples to just hang out with from time to time. In the bedroom, we tend to like kinky, experimental sex. We're open to trying almost anything once. Some of our favorite activities/positions in the bedroom are whatever mood we are in. We’re willing to try some light bondage or blindfolds.

My Ideal Person Intellectual, funny, likes to have fun, is just as comfortable cuddling on couch watching a movie, has a kinky side that is similar, good hygiene, is DDF

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A rollercoaster, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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