Before you read on, I want you to know I am a married guy so if you have this thing against "married" men there may not be any point in reading on. I also have alot of "I don't do married men" friends in the Southern Room. Heck...call me a glutton for punishment for continuously chasing after them. I am looking for just one woman who doesn't care if I am married or, is married herself. That is what a friend with benefits is. I am not a player either. I hate liars, bullshit artists and wannabes. All I am asking is for a day or two of your week for some social companionship both in and out of the bedroom. I am attractive and probably look younger than I really am but all that I can say is the plumbing still works. If you want to know what my style is in the bedroom...lets just say foreplay is important; so is passionate kissing and teasing. Mutual satisifaction and spontaneous pleasure with multiple orgasms can only be achieved if you agree that "it takes two to tango". I won't brag about it but I know I can satisfy you in any which way you want. If you want a picture, chat or meet, all you have to do is ask.

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who doesn't stigmatize me for being married but rather, accepts me for being human however imperfect I may be.

Honesty, open communications and a charming personality are a must. If you look like Jennifer Anniston, Demi Moore or Cindy Crawford but have a personality of Martha Stewart or brag of being better than Linda Lovelace, forget it honey.

If you are looking for fun times, have a sense of humor, wanting to explore and be adventurous...inquire within. I am sure you won't be disappointed!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Hmmm....taking a stroll in the woods during the summer with a partner who does not hold back. She wears a skirt with nothing underneath....and we find a secluded spot where she leans against a tree and I enter her from behind. And, we both climax in less than 2 minutes!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Demi Moore

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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