Single working professional with older ren at home searching for a friend and activity partner with benefits. I have very little time to engage in finding a suitable special friend in daily life, so I thought I would give this a shot. I'm going to try to make a long story short yet still give you a basic idea of who I am and what I am looking for. Divorced after a long and very unhealthy unhappy marriage. Those years took a great toll on me both physically and emotionally, but a certain milestone birthday was the catalyst to taking my life and happiness back. I figured I did my time, my s were mostly grown, life is short and time goes by so quickly, I would not waste another precious day being unhappy! Today, my focus is on living a happier, healthier and more fulfilling life. I did not join a "regular" dating site because I am not interested at this time in finding a life partner or the entanglement of a traditional relationship nor did I want to mislead anyone who may be. I am very happy and satisfied being single, but I do miss spending time in the company of a man, romance and of course, sex. In my quest to make the next 10 years the best of my life, my focus is on healthy living, healthy eating and fitness. There are many things on my bucket list that will require me to be healthy and in good physical condition. I am a work in progress and have quite a way to go still, but I know my lifestyle and commitment to it will yield those results.

My Ideal Person My ideal guy would be a tattooed hairy chested ripped hunk with a neat, closely trimmed full beard, a great sense of humor, a big boat and a PhD. It did ask me for my IDEAL person, didn't it?

Seriously though, someone of good character, who is intelligent, honest, attractive, non judgmental, into healthy living and fitness minded. Big bonus if you also love music, fishing, sun, sand and the sea.

I would prefer an unattached friend, as I am not into hurting anyone nor do I want the chance of any drama occurring during our friendship. There would have to be extenuating circumstances for me to consider a married guy. I would like someone who is free to take an occasional weekend trip and spend some time exploring new places, doing activities, trying new cuisines and just enjoying each others company and some steamy romantic interludes.

If you aren't attracted to big girls or you are not willing to meet in person, please don't waste my time or yours.